Sometimes we put responsibility on others: responsibility in household, in food, in duties, even in feelings. It looks like HE/SHE should love you and YOU should only take that love. But it’s 100% incorrect information, it shouldn’t be like that.
Try not to be so selfish and don’t look for a limit of your power. Only you can love, feel and change yourself as well as your place where you live. For instance, with a help of small LED string lights you can change apperence of your flat/dorm room/apartment. Everything is up to you. With a help of LED lights you can create romantic atmosphere and in such a way express your feelings. Try not to be so selfish!